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WELCOME TO WAM (What about me!)
imagine walking into a room where you don't have to hold everything together
“My mission with the WAM Club is simple. To create a space for women who are tired of being the strong one, the organised one, the one who holds everything together. It's a space where you can stop pretending you're fine, tell the truth about your life, and not have to apologise for feeling like that. Where real conversation happen, about the stuff we're all thinking but don't always say out loud. A space for proper laughter, honest connection and women who just get it, without you needing to explain.”
I'm guessing you’re here because something in your life has been whispering, “This can’t be it… surely there’s more for me than holding everything together.”
You’re exhausted from being the strong one, aching for connection, craving a space where you
don’t have to pretend you’re fine any more.
You’ve spent so long looking after everyone else that somewhere along the way… you disappeared a little.
The WAM Club is where we change that — together.
This is where you get to reconnect with yourself, feel supported by women who genuinely get it, and start shifting the course of your life in ways that feel grounding, joyful and deeply human.
You don’t have to carry it all alone anymore. We’re doing this side by side — and it’s going to feel so much better.
I’m Hayley, and The WAM Club is basically the community I spent years wishing I had.
I’ve been the strong one, the fixer, the organiser, the one who could “handle it.” I’ve burnt out, disappeared into looking after everyone else, and hit all the external markers of “doing well” while going to bed feeling lonely and a bit lost in my own life.
My work as a therapist and hypnotherapist grew out of that lived experience — I know what it’s like to hold it together on the outside while quietly coming undone on the inside.
The WAM Club is my way of saying “no more of that.”
It’s not about fixing you or giving you another thing for your self-improvement list. It’s your corner of the month to flop in a chair, breathe, be honest, say the things you usually swallow down, and feel other women nodding because they’ve been there too.
I’m bringing everything I’ve learned — through my own healing, years in therapy rooms and the groups I’ve hosted — into a space that feels real, human and nourishing. I’ll hold the room, ask the questions and create the safety… so you get to remember, not just in your head but in your body: I matter too.
The WAM Club
The WAM Club is your monthly breath — a place where you can finally exhale, drop the weight, and remember
who you are beneath all the jobs, titles, and to-dos. Where you get to arrive as the full, unedited you - weary bits,
hopeful bits, messy bits - all welcome.
The WAM Club has two parts:
The WAM Circle
A monthly cosy, intimate, therapeutic gathering.
This is where we talk about real life, the stuff women don’t usually say out loud.
Each month we explore a theme that actually matters to your wellbeing: emotional load, boundaries, identity, joy, connection, burnout, what you truly want, who you’re becoming.
What to expect:
Deep Conversations that don't drain you - they lift you
A room full of women who get it without explanation
Tools and insights that help you connect to yourself
Gentle, powerful shifts that ripple into your life
Space to be honest with fear of judgement
This is your once-a-month reset button, a space to hear yourself again.
Launch price £45 per month
IN-PERSON ONLY
2.5 hour group session
Launching Monday 26th January 2026
Location: Maxey (PE6)
There will be limited spaces (10 per group) because depth requires intimacy.
If you want first dibs on a seat you can join through the link below.
The WAM Socials
WAM Socials are the fun, playful, creative side of The WAM Club — the part where we come together to learn something new, laugh until our faces ache, and make memories that actually feel like living again.
Life gets busy. We all know it. The to-do lists get longer, the weeks blur into each other, and before we know it, months have passed without doing anything just for the joy of it.
WAM Socials exist to change that.
Think of them as little pockets of permission — to try something new, to reconnect with your creativity, to say yes to fun, and to step into a room full of women who are also craving more connection and lightness in their lives.
My hope is that WAM Socials become a catalyst for new friendships…
A space where loneliness softens.
Where disconnection dissolves.
Where you walk away feeling like, “I needed that more than I realised.”
WAM Socials are your reminder that community isn’t just something we talk about — it’s something we create together.
Price's will vary according to activity.
IN-PERSON ONLY
Launching February 2026
Location: Multiple
What happens when you join the WAM Circle?
First things first — you’re in. Once you complete your sign-up, your place in the WAM Circle is secured. You’ll receive a payment confirmation from Stripe, followed by a welcome message from me with everything you need to know.
This is your first step into the WAM community — I’m so excited to have you here.
Questions about the WAM Club?
What exactly is The WAM Club?
The WAM Club is a monthly, in-person gathering for women who are tired of being “the strong one,” craving connection, and ready for more honesty and more joy in their lives. It’s part therapeutic conversation, part community, part soul-food — a space to finally put yourself back on the list.
You can join The WAM Circle for a deeper, more intimate experience, or come along to WAM Socials to meet new people, have fun and soak up beautiful, uplifting energy.
Why I created the WAM Club?
Because women carry too much. Not because we can, but because at some point someone handed it to us, we
said “oh, it’s fine, I’ve got it,” and now we’re walking around like emotional packhorses wondering why our shoulders live up by our ears.
Somewhere along the way, we disappeared a little.
We stopped asking for help (because it was “easier to just do it ourselves”).
We stopped having the real, messy conversations.
We stopped giving ourselves any actual space that wasn’t in the car in the supermarket car park.
We stopped choosing ourselves…
I see it all the time in my therapy work: brilliant, capable, funny-as-hell women running on fumes, doing life solo on “I’m fine” autopilot,
quietly aching for connection, understanding, and one space where they don’t have to be the organised one for five minutes.
The WAM Club is my answer to that ache.
A place where women can slowly rebuild the relationship they have with themselves, while being held by community.
A place where you feel seen.
A place where you actually belong.
A place where you start to remember yourself again — not the polished, “together” version… the real, gloriously human one.
What can I expect from the WAM Club?
A deeper sense of connection with yourself – that magical feeling of actually hearing your own thoughts again, instead of just reacting to everyone else’s needs like a one-woman emergency response unit.
A community that feels like home. No hierarchy, no cliques, no “who do you think you are?” side-eye – just women who get it
and are far too tired for fakery.
Conversations that leave you lighter, not weighed down. The kind where you find yourself saying, “wait… you do that too?!” and
silently thanking the universe it’s not just you.
Practical, grounded tools to support your emotional wellbeing – actual things you can use in real life, in between school runs, work
calls and wondering what on earth to cook for dinner… again. Not fluffy ideas that evaporate the second you get home.
New friendships, gentle support, and the kind of women who’ll cheer you on and lovingly nudge you back
to yourself when you drift off into martyrdom mode.
Laughter. Proper, slightly snorty, possibly mascara-smudging laughter.
Learning, insight, and full permission to show up exactly as you are – tired, tearful, curious, hopeful, or just here for the biscuits.
All of you is welcome.
A safe space to talk about the things women rarely say out loud, but think (loudly) on a daily basis.
A monthly reset – a little anchor point in your diary to pause, breathe, and remember who you are underneath the noise,
the roles and the group chats.
And yes, did I mention… lots of laughter and fun threaded through it all. This is not another thing on your “to improve” list.
It’s your breathe-out space.
You’ll walk away each time thinking:
“Oh. That’s what I’ve been missing.”
Who is The WAM Club for?
It’s for the woman who is tired down to her bones from being everyone’s anchor… the safe pair of hands, the one who “can cope”
(and who everyone assumes will always cope)… even when she’s secretly Googling “how to run away to a cabin in the woods.”
It’s for the woman who is bored to tears of small talk and the “I'm so busy!” conversations, she is craving the kind of honest chat where you can say how you really are… and nobody flinches or tries to fix you.
It’s for the woman who’s somehow slipped to the bottom of her own list and can’t quite remember what she actually wants
anymore — or who she is outside of being mum/partner/daughter/colleague/carer/keeper-of-everyone’s-appointments.
It’s for the woman who knows she needs time just for her, but the “book something for myself” has been on her mental to-do list for the last… decade?
It’s for the woman who loves the idea of a community that feels warm, grounded and real – no performance, no pretending,
no “by now you really should have your life together” vibes. Just women walking side by side, each at their own pace, laughing, wobbling, figuring it out as they go.
If you’re longing for a place where you don’t have to hold it all together…
If you’re ready to gently reclaim your spark, your joy, your voice (without having to do it alone)…
If you want a circle of women who lift you, see you and remind you of who you are…
Then you are absolutely our kind of woman.
How much does it cost to join WAM Circle and WAM Socials?
WAM Circle is £45 per month for a 3-hour intimate, therapeutic-style session.
Because this work grows deeper and safer over time, I ask that you commit in 3-month blocks. You pay £45 each month, and at the end of the three months you’ll have the option to renew for another block if it still feels supportive and right for you.
WAM Socials are priced per event and will vary depending on what we’re doing. As a guide, they’ll typically range from around £20 for a guest speaker or relaxed connection evening, up to around £75 for a more immersive, full crafting-style event with materials included.
This way, you can choose the mix of deeper inner work and fun, social connection that feels good for you, your energy and your budget.
Do I have to share personal stuff?
Absolutely not. You share what feels right for you, when it feels right. Some women speak a lot, others take their time — both are welcome. There’s no pressure, no performing, no expectation.
Is this a Therapy Group?
It’s therapeutic, but not therapy. I bring my experience as a therapist and facilitator, but WAM is more about real conversation, connection, and learning about yourself in a grounded, supportive way. Think: nourishing, not clinical.
I don’t know anyone — will I fit in??
Yes. 100%. Most women join not knowing a soul. The whole point of WAM is to create a warm, welcoming, zero-judgement space where friendships grow naturally. You’ll be surprised how quickly you feel at home.
What if I’m exhausted, overwhelmed or feeling a bit lost?
Then you’re exactly who WAM was created for. You don’t need to be “sorted” or full of energy to show up. Come as you are — messy, tired, curious, hopeful — and let the room do what it does best: hold you, lift you and remind you that you matter.
The WAM Club isn’t just a gathering — it’s a gentle rebellion.
A reminder that you’re allowed to take up space, to rest, to be held, to laugh, and to reconnect with the parts of yourself that got buried under everyone else’s needs.
This is your invitation to slow down, plug back into real connection, and remember the woman you were before life got so loud.
A place to land, to breathe, and to belong.
Whenever you’re ready, we’ll be here.
